Strengths for tolerance in a complex world
Understanding different combinations of strengths can help us approach disagreement with more curiosity and tolerance.
June 11, 2017 · Denise McLaughlin · Article summary
Different perspectives, shared possibilities
The article considers how people can see the same social or political problem differently. Our strengths influence which details we notice, how we define a problem and which solutions feel natural. Recognizing that influence can make it easier to understand another person's approach.
A lesson from leadership training
Denise recalls a class in which participants judged the characters in a story very differently. The exercise helped her recognize that her preferences for connection and relationships shaped her interpretation, while others approached the situation more pragmatically or preferred clearer boundaries and responsibilities.
An invitation to curiosity
The reflection invites readers to recognize their own strengths lens and to appreciate the strengths other people bring. A combination of different abilities can help communities work together and make their surroundings better.
About the contributor
Denise McLaughlin retired from marketing to pursue art, history and volunteering. Her Top 5 themes are Connectedness, Relator, Intellection, Responsibility and Discipline. Her community work has included an arts group, a history museum, volunteer genealogy and Meals on Wheels.
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